The Secret of Success - A top 5 list of successful character traits - Concentration

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The rotator now has a ‘see my other sites’ link. I believe this is unique to HitSafari and allows surfers the opportunity to see everything that you are advertising. The Rotator itself will rotate all the urls you have listed that have credits assigned to them. It’s a great advertising tool and and with the new look will attract a lot of attention. :)

This week i have an assignment for you.. and it’s worth 100 credits to the first 20 who respond in the comment section below.

I’d like to know what surfing ratio the other exchanges are offering. It’s at times info that is hard to find so you might have to search some, but I think it will be a good list to have. This is for MEMBERS only.. no TE Owners.

Each post can only be one exchange and the 100 credits will go to each of the first 20 unique responses. Sound like fun?

I’m starting a five part series this week - 5 . Today’s quality is Concentration. Please feel free to leave a comment if there is something you like, don’t like or would like to see. Thanks :)

50 on 5

Week of February 17th

236 surfed 50 on 5 and the 5 winners, chosen at random, are:

amandaz 100
gfeng 200
brianj 300
richdeb 400
wangfeihong 500

Congratulations! Credits have been added to your account.

With a 10 second timer, 300 should be no problem.. If we go over 300 surfers this week that surf 50 on 5, 10 people will win double credits!!

The Secret of Success
A top 5 list of successful
chapter one -

No matter how you describe , whether it be fame or fortune, long life or any of several definitions, the root of any success is the ‘achievement of something desired, planned or attempted’.

Success equals achievement.. accomplishment.. reaching the goal of finishing what we started.

Successful people commonly share many of the same traits. One of those traits is the ability to concentrate.

Orison Swett Marden, an American author and founder of Success magazine stated that “Concentration is the factor that causes the great discrepancy between men and the results they achieve…”

I write about focus quite a bit which is essentially the same thing.. concentrating our energy on one project, one program, one income opp without being distracted by the next ‘latest and greatest’ that will always be there to tempt us.

As a kid did you ever get your dad’s magnifying glass out on a sunny day? I’ve heard that by focusing the heat of the sun through the magnifying glass you can fry an ant rather quickly… concentrated energy focused on the ant.

I can’t say that I ever tried it, sounds cruel to me, but what we did do was get the roll of caps for our cap guns and lay them out on the sidewalk. That concentration of the suns energy gave us a very satisfying, albeit small, explosion.

The trait of concentration works much the same.

By focusing all our energy on one idea or project, we will achieve it. This applies not only to a finished project, but to each step of the process.

Our success should not be defined by the volume of projects we undertake, but by the quality of the projects we finish. Careless work in a number of different areas can never compare to one accomplishment well done. We also experience discouragement far less because our complete attention is focused on one thing, not divided among a dozen or so uncompleted projects that we need to get back to.

I’ve heard people say before that they can’t concentrate.. that they simply can’t stay focused on one project. Concentration, like many characteristics or habits, is a learned process. We don’t just wake up one day and discover our concentration gene has kicked in. We need to develop the characteristic of concentration and gradually we will see it begin to infiltrate and bring success to all areas of our lives.

Concentration should not be a sporadic thing. It needs to be developed and fostered. This can most effectively be done by mastering small things and then applying the learned techniques to other areas.

Start, for example, by concentrating on getting through all of your new email each morning. Delete the things you don’t want, file the things you do, respond to those that need responding to.

How many times have you clicked on a link in an email to determine whether it is something that you need to act on and when you arrive at the site you start reading and something you read reminds you of something you saw someplace else or another link grabs your attention and you click away from the first page to something else that leads you to another site which has to be read immediately and on and on you go and before you know it 2 hours have passed and your email still sits unattended to?

I think I can safely say that has happened to most of us.

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What I have done is created a bookmark folder labeled Temporary. When I come across a site that interests me while doing something else, going through email, surfing, talking to someone, I add it to the folder and then when the project that I’m working on is completed and I have some extra time, I open my temp file.

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Another way to foster concentration is by carefully choosing what we focus on.

I personally find it more difficult to concentrate on something that doesn’t interest me. It can be done, and sometimes it needs to be done, but all things being equal, I’d rather focus my attention on something that I enjoy.

There will always be the debate on whether you need to be passionate about a subject you want to write about or build a site around. Sure you could develop a squeeze page and a set of autoresponder messages and write some articles about the physiology of back pain, but if you’ve never experienced back pain and could care less about the physiology of anything, then why do it? Just because the latest PLR info you received addresses the issue isn’t a good enough reason.

While passionate is a rather strong word, finding a subject interesting is going to make the whole process so much more entertaining and, more specifically, much easier to concentrate on. Give yourself all the advantages you can and pick an interesting subject matter for your project.

One final thought on concentration.

Concentration is not a frenzy of activity performed under the pressure of a deadline. It shouldn’t be stressful to concentrate neither should it be only mental with no activity.

The ability to concentrate frees us to do our best work and work requires action.

I recently moved my elliptical machine up from the basement to the living room. It’s not a huge room so this piece of exercise equipment can not be ignored. There are times that I sit and stare at this overpriced coat rack and envision myself using it for 20 minutes non-stop and working myself up to a full episode of Oprah. I even concentrate on how good I will feel once I’m in better shape and lose a few pounds.

But you know what? In the two weeks that thing has been sitting next to the couch I have not lost one single pound or improved my health one bit. The reason is simply because there has been no action. Along with a person’s concentration there must be actual performance.

“The weakest living creature, by concentrating his powers on a single object, can accomplish good results while the strongest, by dispersing his effort over many chores, may fail to accomplish anything. Drops of water, by continually falling, hone their passage through the hardest of rocks but the hasty torrent rushes over it with hideous uproar and leaves no trace behind.”

~ Og Mandino ~

Such is the power of concentration; such is the .

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Feb 26, 2008
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% of unique hits being delivered 41.6%
Alexa 16,940

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Comments

  1. February 26th, 2008 | 7:31 pm

    Hi Paula,

    I love Hits “Heavy Weight Upgrade” gives 1.25 to 1 Surf Ratio

    davejo99

  2. February 26th, 2008 | 8:02 pm

    I am very partial to “Traffic G”, because I am able to accumulate lots of credits quickly and can easily assign the credits to my numerous sites listed within TrafficG that I want to promote:

    SuperSurf Surfing 1 Credit Per View (1:1)
    HomePage Service 0.5 Credits per view
    Exchanger Views 0.5 Exchanger Credits Per View

  3. February 26th, 2008 | 10:15 pm

    Well, I’m a TE Owner but also a member. Do I still count? :0)
    At The Cinnamon Hollow, we offer 2:1 as our standard free ratio and 1:1 for Pro members.

  4. February 26th, 2008 | 10:21 pm

    The ratio at ClicknPutt (new exchange) is 3:1, same at SurfTiger.

    Elwin

  5. February 26th, 2008 | 10:52 pm

    Be sure and leave your HS username with your post!

    Paula

  6. February 26th, 2008 | 11:15 pm

    Thanks for the idea you shared about a temporary file.
    This will come in handy but when do you find time to
    go through that file?

    I don’t keep close track of which-is-which as far as sites
    that show their click ratios but I try for those that give
    1-1 or 2-1 with 10 second intervals or less. One is tempo-
    rarily giving 7 seconds. If I find something of interest
    I may stop much longer to check it out.

    My biggest dissapointment is when I see mostly TE’s and
    not enough “real” (other types) of sites in the listing.
    Everyone needs traffic but I offer “real products” people
    can use. I’m sure others do also.

    Thanks for the space.
    Lee-(JudyLeeStores.net)

  7. February 26th, 2008 | 11:16 pm

    Hi Paula,

    I am a Gold member at TrafficEra. I get 9 credit minutes each time I surf if I let the timer go the full 15 seconds and fade. I also get bonus credit minutes every once in a while. The bonus credits vary from 5 to 50 or more.

    Each time someone sees my website, it can cost any where from
    10 to 15 credit minutes, depending on how long they see my site.

    My Hit Safari user name is sandyc.

    Thanks,
    Sandy

  8. February 26th, 2008 | 11:37 pm

    Traffic-Splash offers:
    Free Members 3:1
    Special Members 1.5:1
    Pro Members 1:1

    RacerX33

  9. Kathy Hewitt
    February 26th, 2008 | 11:53 pm

    Traffic Splash offers 3:1 (1 credit for 3 sites seen) for FREE members
    1:1 for Pro members

    kdmhewitt

  10. February 26th, 2008 | 11:57 pm

    Credits given to clcrm96, davejo99, sandyc, racerx33 and kdmhewitt..
    I need usernames for you others please :)

    Interesting info so far.. thanks

  11. Kathy Hewitt
    February 27th, 2008 | 12:01 am

    Paula,
    Sorry for another reply, but my internet went out just as I was
    submitting my first one. :-(
    Since my internet is back up, I thought I would try it again. I noticed that my 1st reply some how was submitted before I lost my internet, but I guess Travis M. beat me to submitting Traffic Splash.

    So I figured I better submit a different one.

    Our Traffic Place offers:
    Pro Members 1:1 ratio
    Free Members 2.5:1 ratio

    Kathy
    kdmhewitt

  12. February 27th, 2008 | 12:04 am

    Thanks Kathy.. :)

  13. February 27th, 2008 | 7:45 am

    Hello Paula;

    Great Article!

    One of the hardest things about working at home is the continual distraction. With family, television, Radio, and phone calls from family and friends it gets hard to keep on track.

    My wife will sometimes call and ask me to do a “Honey Do” at a time when I am at my most busy. Since I can’t say no to my better half I find when I get done with the “Honey Do” I have a hard time getting back on track. It is very normal for our families and friends to think that since we are working at home we have an unlimited amount of free time. Yep, like that is gonna happen for the self driven… LOL!

    There were a few distractions even while I was writing this very short note. The morning news on TV had a story on about a 9-year-old in Australia that can’t play tennis at the local tennis club because she grunts. I had to watch that! My Grandson came into the Office just to say, “I love You Papa!” Now I’m all warm and fuzzy still… 15 minutes later after pondering how lucky I am to have such a caring grandson. ;o) And, I had to refill my coffee cup. Can’t ever let the supply of Coffee run out! LOL!

    Would I change anything? No way!

    Along with the freedom of working at home there has to be structure as you outlined in your article. “Keep on Keeping on” is the key to the structure we need in the home environment. One of the things I do to stay focused is to use sticky notes. I have three areas where I post them.

    One place is on my computer monitor where I can easily see what needs to be done. These are the highest priority. Another is in a space reserved on a wall of my desk cubicle. These are to-do’s that are important but not needed to be done by the end of the day. And, the last is on the office whiteboard. I just looked and it seems there are a lot of sticky notes on the whiteboard… LOL! Got to work on that!

    About the click ratios…

    I have found there is a difference between the advertised Click To Hit ratio and the actual in many Traffic Exchanges. The Actual Click To Hit Ratio is an interesting statistic in my opinion. I believe it is one that reflects cheating activity, bonus page-view rewards, and how well the Traffic Exchange is keeping up with solid traffic flow by auto assigning credits for the members.

    According to my Traffic Exchange Exposed testing report (See my link above) there is a massive number of traffic exchanges that can’t even deliver their advertised Click To Hit Ratio even with the bonus Page-Views factored in. Something to think about when deciding where to spend time clicking…

    Thanks for your contributions on your Blog Paula! You force us to think! ;o)

    Phil

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